October 31, 2015

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Do you ever feel like nothing you set your mind to can be achieved? It's certainly not very motivating to see your dreams and wishes evade you. But have you ever stopped to wonder why it happens?

Part of the reason you struggle with achieving your goals is maybe you fail to start with the right mindset. As you know, I am the “Mindset Lady” and I know that everything starts with our mindset. So while the tips I share in this article will help you, don’t forget to examine your mindset toward your goals.

Another thing to consider is, perhaps you’re having a challenge with how you go about setting goals. Sure you can identify something you want to achieve, but it’s not enough to just want it. Planning is also a vital step in the process.

Adopting an effective approach to goal setting is what really allows you to achieve whatever you want. Wanting something is the first step. Deciding on a feasible plan of action and then following it takes you all the way to the finish line.

Implement this action plan to become a successful goal setter:

  1. Determine your motive. When going through the process of setting goals, ask yourself why. Why is this particular goal important to you?
  • Is the goal benefiting you? Or are you doing it to make somebody else happy? Take the time to determine what the goal really means to you.
  • Your goals ought to make you Sure, it's nice to make others happy. But spending your life always focusing on others prevents you from reaching your fullest potential.
  • Is it possible to “adjust” the goal based on whether or not it's well thought out to begin with? Some goals pop up on a whim. Those are the ones that usually need more thought!
  1. Set realistic timelines. Setting realistic timelines can mean the difference between achieving a goal and losing the opportunity. True, you may be filled with excitement now, but that excitement won’t last long if your steps to your goal are unachievable.
  • Once your goal is realistic, it’s attainable. Be realistic with the time you set to achieve it.
  • Break it up into smaller objectives. Those are easier to view as achievements. That way, you can plot your path and monitor it.
  • Remember that you have the other parts of your life to concentrate on as well. Balance working toward your goal with everything else that's important to you.
  1. Identify a support group. Goal setters need the support of close friends, family, and business associates. This support can keep you going when you start to doubt yourself.
  • Apart from providing encouragement, a support group can bring new ideas. Collective minds produce successful ideas!
  • Ask your supporters for advice about your goals and plan of action. Fill them in on your next idea so they can give you constructive criticism.
  • When you reach your goal, remember to extend your gratitude. Let them know how much you appreciate their support. And return the favor whenever the opportunity presents itself.
  1. Reward yourself for small milestones. A great way to stay motivated is to reward yourself. As soon as you've hit one of those milestones, celebrate!
  • Invite your support group members to celebrate with you. Or, you can celebrate on your own. Whichever way, highlight those mini goals.
  • The journey ahead isn’t so intimidating when you recognize how far you've gotten.
  • Avoid focusing on the long journey ahead of you for a long-term goal. Keep your attention on the small objectives so you don’t feel overwhelmed.

Always look at your goals in your own context and avoid comparing what you've achieved with anybody else's achievements.

Above all, be kind to yourself! Acknowledge that you've already accomplished so much just by being a happy, driven individual. Having that inner peace is a goal that's worth celebrating every day. Keep your head up and your heart passionate. Everything else will fall into place naturally!

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About the Author

Valerie Priester

Helping women entrepreneurs go From Overwhelm to Profits™!

Valerie Priester is a powerhouse business and mindset coach for women entrepreneurs. She helps them to eliminate confusion, frustration, and overwhelm so they can confidently grow profitable and sustainable businesses.

Through her company, Victorious Life Coaching LLC, She provides mindset, money mastery, and personal development coaching. She has years of experience and a proven track record of empowering women to achieve their goals and create the lives they desire. Valerie is a certified Master Business Mindset Coach, a certified Sacred Money Archetype™ Coach, a certified Money Breakthrough™ Business Coach, a certified Les Brown Coach-Trainer-Speaker, a certified Christian Life Coach, and a Motivational Speaker.

Valerie understands what it means to struggle. She's been through some of life's most painful challenges, including unhealthy relationships, failed businesses, and years as a struggling single parent. But Valerie doesn't give up easily. She fought her way back and discovered her confidence and self-worth.

Now she helps other women do the same. Her coaching style is transformative, and she helps women address their self-limiting beliefs, negative self-talk, low self-esteem, and lack of self-confidence.

Valerie knows what it takes to overcome adversity and live victoriously. She is living proof that anything is possible when you have the right mindset and are willing to do the work required for success.

Valerie has been mentored by some of the top leaders in the Business and Personal Development industries. This has equipped her with the expertise to specialize in helping women who are ready to see real change in their lives.

Her approach enables her clients to gain clarity on the business and lifestyle they most desire. Valerie is compassionate but firm, loving but demanding – her desire is to see her clients win in business and in life, not just exist.

Valerie is passionate about empowering women to Design Their Victory so they can Live Their Dreams.

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